Dear Anna, I’m a 41-year-old woman, just getting back into dating after an eight-year relationship, which ended a little over a year ago. In the past, I’ve spent so much energy looking out for red flags that I realize I’ve never really paid attention to the good signs — the green flags.
Category: Advice
Asking Eric: How to unsubscribe from friend
Dear Eric: Three years ago, I met a woman, Margaret, and we became best friends very rapidly. Last year, during a tough year, I began to feel that some of Margaret’s behavior was that of someone who was using me, not someone who actually cared about me
Asking Eric: Toll charges adding up
Dear Eric: A few years ago, I sold my extra car as I was retiring in good financial shape and simplifying my expenses. Having an extra EZ Pass toll device, I gifted it to my father and his third wife, my stepmother.
Asking Eric: Supervisor breached my trust
Dear Eric: Our HR department defines annual reviews as confidential spaces where free expression is encouraged. My supervisor, however, breached that trust. My complaint to HR yielded a commendation for a superior work ethic, which I found patronizing. My supervisor’s tactics were ignored. As my department is no longer the collegial, supportive atmosphere it once was, I am considering resigning and sharing the reasons with our managing board.
Asking Eric: Senior spending retirement watching TV
Dear Eric: My mother has been a widow for quite a few years now. Her days consist of watching TV. We took her on vacation with us once, but she wanted to just stay in the hotel and watch TV.
Asking Eric: I am feeling ignored by my family
Dear Eric: It seems my wife is playing superstar, and I sweep the stage.
Asking Eric: Boyfriend is too devoted to his cats
Dear Eric: Fred talks nonstop about his cats; on the rare occasion we go out, he’s constantly checking his security cameras to see what the cats are doing.
Terry Savage: Big changes to Medicare demand attention during open enrollment
It’s time for Medicare open enrollment, the few weeks between October 15 and December 7 when all current Medicare beneficiaries must make some important decisions about their coverage for 2025.
Ask Anna: How to tell if a friend is ‘quiet quitting’ you?
Dear Anna, one of my closest friends has been pulling away from our friendship over the last few years. It’s nothing overt or dramatic, but there’s a subtle withdrawal happening.
Ex-etiquette: I don’t trust my child’s father
Q. I don’t trust my child’s father. He says one thing and does another—all the time.