Dear Eric: A little over a year ago, I learned through a mutual friend that my brother has an incurable cancer – the kind that is hereditary and would place me at a significantly elevated risk.
Category: Advice
Asking Eric: I struggle to turn new relationships into meaningful friendships
Dear Eric: I have met many wonderful people but have a problem getting close with anyone. Any suggestions?
Asking Eric: Are we going to get married and have kids?
Dear Eric: When we first got together, he was very much open to marriage and kids, but it seems that this has changed, even though he has not clearly expressed this to me.
Asking Eric: Family member insists on washing dishes by hand
Dear Eric: The hot water waste is incredible, it’s left running while the person talks and tells stories. And they’re slow to boot.
Asking Eric: I gained 100 pounds since we last dabbled in romance
Dear Eric: I’ve been friends with “Steven” for 40 years. We’ve dabbled in romance a few times when we were both single, but we always return to the platonic comfort zone. We live in separate states and haven’t seen each other for 15 years. We talk on the phone about once a month, and I’m satisfied with that.
Asking Eric: No thank you for Christmas gifts
Dear Eric: I got nothing from anyone. Not even an acknowledgement from the kids.
Asking Eric: Mom has become mean
Dear Eric: Since my dad and brother have passed, my mom is increasingly mean, angry, rude and spreads rumors about me and my kids. To the point where she told several people, including my long-term boyfriend, that I cheated on my ex-husband (the father of my children). That is an out-and-out lie.
Terry Savage: Analyzing Medicare Advantage plans
Medicare Advantage plans now cover slightly more than half of American seniors in the Medicare program. The attraction is in both the low costs and the additional services they advertise. But there can be significant drawbacks to Advantage plans since they limit covered access to physicians and hospitals in their network.
Asking Eric: College student distraught at being away from boyfriend
Dear Eric: I love her boyfriend and support their relationship – he is kind and fun. However, I’m concerned about how quickly they have become emotionally dependent on each other.
Terry Savage: Understanding IRMAA
Meet IRMAA. This is not a senior’s dating site, but every senior on Medicare should be intimately familiar with IRMAA — the initials that stand for “income-related monthly adjustment amount.” It’s the amount by which your Medicare Part B and Part D premiums increase each year, based on your recent modified adjusted gross income (MAGI). […]