Dear Eric: She wasn’t always like this. Her husband and I are the main recipients of this behavior – I’ve seen her make fun of her husband in front of other people, but he just shrugs it off. I don’t see her doing this to her other friends and family members.
Category: Advice
Asking Eric: Teen asks for overpriced sneakers
Dear Eric: But because she really is a sweet kid, I offered to help get the sneakers. Unfortunately, she wanted outrageously overpriced sneakers I wouldn’t buy for my own granddaughter.
Asking Eric: Ex-wife sent a $1,000 gift card
Dear Eric: They do not have children, pets or any property together. It should have been a clean break; however, she still contacts him.
Asking Eric: Am I justified in asking for these things back?
Dear Eric: During the process of our moving from a large house to an apartment in a retirement community, my daughter-in-law asked my son to leave their house. I had already arranged to give them many things, including my late daughter’s artwork, two antique Chinese wedding chests and a Turkish rug. I paid to have these things, as well as a dining set, two sofas, and beds, moved to their house, thinking that they would get back together.
Asking Eric: Readers respond to older adults seeking connection
Dear Readers: On Sept. 23, I published two letters from older adults experiencing loneliness (“Still Grieving” and “Wants a Connection”). I asked those of you who have successfully found connection at a later stage in life to write in.
Terry Savage: Sorting out Medicare Part D drug coverage
Whether you have a stand-alone Part D drug plan or your drug coverage comes with your Advantage all-in-one plan, you must do a review. (Note that not all Advantage Plans include drug coverage, and if you’re in Advantage without drugs, you cannot buy a separate Part D plan!)
Ask Anna: How to avoid serial dating
Dear Anna, I’m a 40-year-old newly divorced career gal, and dipping my toes back into the dating pool after a long marriage. I’m not looking for anything super serious just yet, but I also don’t want to waste time on people who aren’t genuinely interested or who have wildly different values or goals than I do.
Ex-etiquette: Co-parenting on Halloween
Q. Halloween is always a problem. I want the kids to be with me and their dad wants them to be with him. I keep trying to tell him that the kids want to trick-or-treat with their friends, not in a neighborhood 30 minutes away, but he says they have friends near him, too. It’s so frustrating! Their dad never listens to me. What’s good ex-etiquette?
Asking Eric: Siblings try to overrule mom’s care plan
Dear Eric: I am one of four siblings. I live close to but not with my 102-year-old mother while my siblings live far away. Over the past 12 years, I have gradually taken over a lot of her care, although she generally makes her own decisions and is financially secure. She is dependent on me for cooking, shopping, appointments and company.
Asking Eric: Children did not check in after Hurricane Helene
Dear Eric: We raised them to be independent but caring adults, and we can’t understand why they showed little-to-no concern for our safety.