Dear Eric: Over the two days at my cottage, her drinking was to the point where she was unable to carry on a conversation and I had to help her to walk.
Category: Advice
Asking Eric: I come home to dishes every night
Dear Eric: I have no issue doing the dishes I dirtied, however why am I doing everyone’s? I’m feeling extremely tired and disrespected.
Asking Eric: Readers respond to a letter writer who swore off dating due to ED
Dear Readers: Letter writer “Single By Choice” asked for advice relating to his choice to swear off dating after an erectile dysfunction diagnosis. Many responses poured in. What struck me about every single one of the responses was how empathetic and solution-focused they were. I’m sharing five of the replies in hopes that they inspire a new way of thinking for the letter writer and for anyone else in this position.
Asking Eric: Husband doesn’t approve of wife’s lifesaving friends
Dear Eric: Mid-pandemic, my family and I moved to my husband’s hometown, hundreds of miles from our old city. It was a very difficult transition for me. I am a stay-at-home mom and the opportunities to meet people were very limited because of the pandemic.
Ask Anna: Our relationship is getting lost in the shuffle
Dear Anna, I’m a 27-year-old woman, and my boyfriend (31) has always been passionate about political activism. I admire his dedication to causes like climate change and social justice, but lately it feels like our relationship is getting lost in the shuffle.
Terry Savage: This year’s best retirement book
Every year a new book comes along that is truly worth taking the time to read — and more than once. This year’s outstanding book is the just-published “How to Retire: 20 Lessons for A Happy, Successful and Wealthy Retirement” by Morningstar’s director of personal finance, Christine Benz.
Ask Anna: Should I tell my boyfriend I cheated in a past relationship?
Dear Anna, We’re serious — and lately are talking more and more about marriage. But something from my past has been weighing on me, and I’m struggling with whether or not I should tell him.
Asking Eric: Son visits his in-laws more than his parents
Dear Eric: We hardly ever see my son, daughter-in-law and 8-year-old grandson. Their time is very skewed toward my daughter-in-law’s family. We get along very well with my daughter-in-law’s parents, and we consider ourselves friends. We have never had words or any hint of a problem with my son and daughter-in-law.
Asking Eric: Aunt’s secret story about sister haunts niece
Dear Eric: My aunt on my mother’s side, told me that there was something she needed to tell me, but that I’d have to wait until my mother passed. My mother was sick at the time, so I let it go.
Ex-etiquette: Ex upset over new girlfriend
Q. My ex and I have been separated for 6 months. Yesterday my ex refused to drop our kids off at my home because my girlfriend’s car was in the driveway.