Dear Anna, I’ve tried to tell myself it’s not about the gifts, and he’s a good partner in other ways. He’s kind, supportive and we have a lot of fun together. But I can’t shake the feeling that the lack of effort he puts into presents means something about how he feels about me.
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Ask Anna: How to handle being single during the holidays
Dear Anna, Usually Mariah Carey season is my favorite, but this year I’m struggling. Everywhere I look, people are cozying up, planning cute holiday dates and posting about their jolly AF lives. Meanwhile, I’m single, spending my evenings scrolling through dating apps and wondering if I should just settle for someone mediocre so I’m not alone through the holidays.
Ask Anna: Fiancee wants a ‘free pass’ before the wedding
Dear Anna, Last night, however, during dinner, she brought up something that completely blindsided me: the idea of us each having a “pass” to sleep with someone else before the wedding.
Ask Anna: From situationships to dating apps — a guide to starting fresh
Dear Anna, My partner and I broke up in late April but we had a situationship over the summer. I’m a sophomore in college and I’m excited to get back out there. There’s one problem, I have no clue what I’m doing.
Ask Anna: How can I move past my boyfriend’s cringey DMs?
Dear Anna, I’ve been dating my boyfriend (36M) for five months, and recently, I found out that he had quite a reputation for sending unsolicited, borderline harassy messages to women online.
Ask Anna: How to avoid serial dating
Dear Anna, I’m a 40-year-old newly divorced career gal, and dipping my toes back into the dating pool after a long marriage. I’m not looking for anything super serious just yet, but I also don’t want to waste time on people who aren’t genuinely interested or who have wildly different values or goals than I do.
Ask Anna: Forget red flags — here are 5 green flags of a supportive partner
Dear Anna, I’m a 41-year-old woman, just getting back into dating after an eight-year relationship, which ended a little over a year ago. In the past, I’ve spent so much energy looking out for red flags that I realize I’ve never really paid attention to the good signs — the green flags.
Ask Anna: Our relationship is getting lost in the shuffle
Dear Anna, I’m a 27-year-old woman, and my boyfriend (31) has always been passionate about political activism. I admire his dedication to causes like climate change and social justice, but lately it feels like our relationship is getting lost in the shuffle.
Ask Anna: Should I tell my boyfriend I cheated in a past relationship?
Dear Anna, We’re serious — and lately are talking more and more about marriage. But something from my past has been weighing on me, and I’m struggling with whether or not I should tell him.
Ask Anna: We hardly ever go out
Dear Anna, are we too isolated, or are we just fine the way we are?